Making love is not just about the sexual intimacy but also
about the actions before and after the act. Your behavior
means a lot to your partner and also is the basis of your
future acts of intimacy.
People often take their partner for granted and behave in a
boorish manner. It surely steals the charm of your
relationship and also annoys your partner. Here are some
things you must never do after sex.
1. Rushing to the bathroom
Getting up and rushing to the bathroom just after making
love is a terrible idea. Most people go to the bathroom to
check their appearance, brush their teeth or take a shower. It
is understandable that you want to be clean but sometimes
just lying in the bed with your partner is much more intimate.
2. Unhygienic Body movements
sex is an act in which you share your whole privacy with your
partner; still there are limits. Scratching or picking your nose
or passing gas in not at all funny. One must maintain certain
etiquette even in their closest moments together.
3. Checking your Mobile
Almost everyone does it. Checking your Mobile phone just
after sex makes your partner feel neglected. We know your
time is valuable and you need to stay connected to the world,
but the intimate moment with your partner is also a precious
one, respect that.
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4. Dressing to leave
You are done and you are moving on, certainly it means sex
was just another task on your mind. You may be getting late
for work but a minutes togetherness when you look into your
partners eyes and bond goes a long way in your relationship.
5. Saying how good you were
You need not toot your own horn. You may feel that you were
superhuman in bed today but saying that makes it cringe
worthy. It is better to compliment your partner and if she/he
feels you were good they will certainly say so.
6. Turning on the TV
Listening to the problems of the free world or catching the
latest score just after some great sex may seem to be a very
relaxing and luxurious idea but actually it is not. It shows
your insensitivity towards the intimacy you just shared. If
you have to watch TV, select something both of you can
watch together.
7. Not cuddling
Some people just roll over and go to sleep after making love.
It's better to cuddle and show your love and affection to
each other.
Look into each others eyes and relax in your partners arms.
This is a great moment to bond and have a romantic
conversation about your love, dreams and life.
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